Three Men & A Little Lady

A Little Bit of This And That

2009-05-05T00:44:00.000-07:00

This pic is of me and my lovely niece, Mia. I just love my girl!

I've been a busy bee. In the last month I have been to youth convention in Stockton, to visit my mom for her birthday, celebrated my birthday and Ethan's birthday. It's been non-stop fun!

My wonderful friends took me out for an evening filled with dinner at Nola's in Palo Alto and ended the night at the musical, the King and I. From the bottom of my heart, I am so grateful for my friends. It's a wonderful thing to be loved!

Here's a few pics for you to enjoy:

This darling little boy makes me smile!

This little big boy makes me smile too - Ethan is 4 - Happy Birthday, Baby!

I baked up a treat for Ethan's birthday: Dino cakes!

Birthday Night! Love me some friends!

Last but not least, I want to thank my hubby - He gave me the ultimate gift on my birthday - a plane ticket to New York to celebrate the lovely Kellee Hopper's day of birth! I am excited, but will be over the top excited once I am safely on the ground - I HATE to fly! It's gonna be an adventure. I promise to post pics when we return from our trip.

Western District Ladies Conference 2009

2009-04-02T00:00:00.000-07:00

...Oh what peace we often forfeit

Oh what needless pain we bear
All because we do not carry
everything to God in prayer

This year for ladies conference, we got a double treat! You cannot ask for any finer speakers than Donna Linville and Debbie Sainez. They both had tremendous messages that touched my heart - well from bits and pieces I took away from their messages. (Jon-Paul went along with me on this trip and let's just say he does not only not nap well away from home and from what I can tell, he is not going to be a very cooperative "church" baby - sigh.)

During one of Sis. Linville's message on Friday morning, she touched on how rather than taking our needs/trials/heartaches to the Lord, we turn to other sources to unload our burdens, i.e. a friend/relative, a good book, money, an addiction, etc. These are all temporary solutions that never fulfills the need. God wants to be our help in the time of need. He is the ultimate solution to our problems. He may not fix it the way we want Him to, but He always does it right.

I can totally relate to this. Too many times I have been guilty of turning to other sources to "vent" when I should be approaching THE SOURCE all along. What a simple, but life-changing message this was for me. Now, if I could just apply this to my everyday life, I know the Lord will work miracles for me.

I totally enjoyed spending time with Kelly and Chasity as well as seeing friends I don't get to chat with very often. We laughed together, cried together, shopped and ate together! There is nothing better, really. I greatly appreciate Ladies Conference, and am totally looking forward to next year!

Meet Belle

2009-03-07T20:49:00.000-08:00

Meet Belle - She is my lovely mannequin that will assist me in my display for Western District Ladies Conference next week. She will also assist me in the near future in Ebay/Etsy listings. I decided she needed something pink since everything in my house has a touch of pink. Therefore, I attempted to make a tutu skirt for her. I did a little bit of research, and although I did not have the time or energy to be very thorough, I thought the skirt came out quite nice. Let me know what you think. If you plan on attending ladies conference in Sacramento, please stop by and say hello.

He'll Make it Alright!

2009-02-24T16:55:00.000-08:00

Need a faith boost? Well I sure do and then some!

Today as I was browsing through Facebook (my new addiction) I came across a link on a friend's Facebook page. This was a blast from the past for me. We used to shout and dance when the choir would sing this song and never had a care about a fallen hair-do or perfect clothes.

Did I ever get encouraged! I clicked on the link, turned up the volume, and Ethan and I danced all around the living room like wild Indians. Take that, devil! HE WILL make it alright!

For those of you that may be going through it, coming out of it, or heading into it, this is for you!

(P.S. I just LOVE this old gospel music! Too bad they don't sing it like they used to.)

I Love You More Than . . . . .

2009-02-11T22:27:00.000-08:00

In honor of L-O-V-E week, I thought it would be fun to let our loved ones know how much we love them! I came across a blog that had this posted:

To my charming husband I would say: I love you more than you love your new iPhone!

To Ethan and Jon-Paul: I love you more than to the moon and back. (See Guess How Much I Love You.)

So now it's your turn. How much more do you love your valentine? Post it here for a fun read!

Jon-Paul is 1

2009-01-30T09:05:00.000-08:00

From here . . . . (This is us checking into the hospital on 1/30/08)

To here. . . .

1/30/08

To here all in a year!

I am amazed how quickly time has passed. Today Jon-Paul turns one. I am so thankful that the Lord provided for me to be home during this year. I suppose that is why I lose track of time. (That subject for a whole other post.)

Jon-Paul is a precious little boy with some attitude thrown in. I can't wait to see how his personality unfolds. Time will tell. He is not yet walking, but getting everywhere FAST. I'm sure it won't be long before I am chasing him at church as he catches up with his big brother, Ethan.

To Jon-Paul: We love you baby boy. You have made our lives more complete! Happy Birthday to you!

Amazing Grace

2009-01-22T10:46:00.000-08:00

A few weeks ago, my dear friend, Chasity Herman, was diagnosed with thyroid cancer. She is a beautiful young mother of two small babies under two and wife to one lucky husband. The doctors informed her that if she could choose any cancer, this would be the one to choose as it is beatable, even more so than skin cancer. We were all relieved to hear that. This morning, as I type this, she is undergoing surgery for the thyroid cancer. Please hold her and her family up in prayer for a safe surgery, and a smooth recovery. The doctor did inform her that recovery might not be so nice.

Nevertheless, if any of you personally know Chasity, she has weathered some very large storms the last four years. I won't go into detail, but trust me, she knows what it is like to suffer.

The beauty of Chasity's story, is every time a storm has came her way, she weathered it with amazing GRACE. Even during this latest cancer scare she sat down with me late one night to explain everything about it, because it was a subject that none of us could talk about. Her optimism and unshakable faith in God is amazing and beautiful. I believe this is just one more trial she will come out of as pure as gold. If I could be half as strong as Chasity, I know I could make it too.

I have always been curious about the big whoop-tee-doo behind the perfume, Amazing Grace. The other day I obtained a sample and on the box were these words:

How you climb up the mountain is just as important as how you get down the mountain. And, so it is with life, which for many of us becomes one big gigantic test followed by one big gigantic lesson. In the end, it all comes down to one word. GRACE. It's how you accept winning and losing, good luck and bad luck, the darkness and light.

This made me think of dear Chasity. She is going through one big gigantic test, but she doing it with Amazing Grace.

I love you, Chas. We are praying. God has His hand on you.

My Top 10 New Year Resolutions

2009-01-21T23:59:00.000-08:00

Okay, I realize that it is the 22nd day of January, and once again I acknowledge the fact that I have neglected my blog. Trust me, it is not intentional, but most of my (very little) spare time, I have been busy catching up with old friends on Facebook. It blows my mind how many friends from my past I have re-connected with. It's so exciting to be able to chat with and see pictures of friends I have not seen in many years. If you have not joined already, you should do so. Be careful though, it's addicting.

On another note, I thought I would post a few of my personal resolutions for 2009. It's not so much that I want to share my very personal information for everyone to see, but I think it will be beneficial for me to be able to view my blog and cringe if I am not scratching things off my list. Here it goes:

1. Update my blog at least once a week. Yes, I hear you all chanting in unison: YEAH RIGHT (or is it my guilty conscience?)

2. Win a few souls. I may be a very busy mom, but should not be too busy to be a witness. My heart has been picked several times about this. For pete's sake, I go to the library, the grocery store, the playground and TARGET at least twice a week. There is no excuse - there is just no excuse.

3. I shall learn how to sew! If you notice me walking around with an uneven hem, one sleeve shorter than the other or a missing collar, you know I've been sewin.

4. I shall learn how to master perfect mashed potatoes, pot roast AND chocolate chip cookies. In the meantime, I will buy a bottle of Tums for the Hubbs.

5. Clean out the clutter! EVERY closet/drawer in my home and garage WILL be organized.

6. I will strive to be the best mother and wife possible! See Proverbs 31

7. Lose weight and lots of it, of course. Exercise too. I always say I should be a stick figure from chasing Ethan around. Jon-Paul is crawling QUICKLY and should be walking soon - That makes two to chase. heh heh ahem (this is a quasi laugh, but really wanting to cry)

8. Invite a family from church over at least once a month for dinner.

9. Trust God for all my needs/worry less. Really, this is so basic, but sometimes so difficult.

10. Last but not least: Have a girls' night out once a month(for mental health purposes) even if it kills me! Oh, a mani/pedi would be nice too, but I would really dreaming if that ever came to pass.

Holiday Festivities and Happy New Year Too

2009-01-05T23:10:00.000-08:00

My favorite subjects: my boys - all bundled up and ready to go!

The month of December is definitely the most wonderful time of the year, and it came and went before I could blink my eyes. At the beginning of the month, I browsed through a local newspaper that listed all the holiday activities that were going on in the surrounding area, i.e., carriage rides, light shows, home tours, etc. I was excited to think we would attempt to attend most of these events including the Escuderos' annual Christmas get-together. WRONG. Due to Sam's busy schedule, the cold/rainy weather and a few other circumstances, things did not go as planned. Do I sound a little disappointed? Yes! However, there's always next year. It was not like we had nothing to do. We were chock full of places to go, loves ones to visit with, etc. etc. Of course, I didn't always have my camera on hand for every little thing, but I thought it would be fun to post some pics of what did take place. I hope you had the most wonderful Christmas. Enjoy!

For our young marrieds event, we decided to meet at Christmas in the Park with kiddies too. We froze our tootsies off, but enjoyed the fellowship anyhow.

Jason, Melissa and Tiny Girl Kidwell

The Hubbs and I being silly, of course. Is he ever serious?!

Kevin, Alicia and Jacob - such a sweet family!

The newlyweds: James and Jessica Wang and Joe and Chelsea Maes. Congratulations!

Some of us gals attempting to keep warm. Brrrrrrrrrr

Happy Birthday, Leah West! (12/19)

Since we knew Mr. West would be planning a romantic dinner for two for Leah's birthday, Kelle and I decided to take her out the week before at a place of her choice. She chose PF Chang's.- Palo Alto! The ironic thing is we have three locations that are much closer, but what in the world is more fun that good food, good friends and good shopping. So you already know Leah and I love to shop, and it's rare that we ever really get to do it together, and it's even MORE rare that we get to drag Kellee along. She HATES to shop. You can see the excitement on her face in the pics below. Sorry, Kell. Happy Birthday, Leah! I pray the Lord bless you with the desires of your heart this coming year. You are so deserving and then some.

I think we ought to make this a yearly birthday celebration, don't you? I was a little giddy being absolutely alone for a few hours without the Hubbs and the kids (RARE). Hot diggidy dog, I felt like it was MY birthday! LOL Really, I have so much fun with these two gals, and I can tell them anything.

Poor Kellee, Leah and I were admiring her from a distance making her purchase. You would never know she hates shopping the most, because she bought the most. She outdid the two of us put together! Also rare.

She caught on to us giggling at her expense. Boy, if looks could kill, we would be dead. mwhaaaaaaaaa (This is my evil laugh.)

Over the week of Christmas, we visited with my dad's family on Christmas Eve, my mom's on Christmas, and then hosted get-togethers at my house up until the day after New Year's. Boy, was I exhausted, but thrilled we got to have Steve and Kelle here for a few days, the Wests came over for dinner THREE times (we don't get a chance to have them for dinner three times during the year because of busy schedules) and we got a chance to visit with Ryan, Annette, Luke and Ellie Herras. Here's a few pics of our time together:

Jon-Paul's first Christmas. I just had to post this picture.

Jason, Steve and Sam hanging out at the table with their laptops. I'm not sure if they go anywhere without them! Notice the Hubbs being his silly self AGAIN.

Leah and Kelly having a girly conversation. I promise I could not hear a word they were saying - must have been juicy. LOL

My dear friend Annette and her precious Luke. I did snap a pic of Ryan and Ellie, but sadly it did not come out so well. I think the Hubbs would be double embarrased if I posted it. Seriously, we had such a good time with them. We haven't seen them in over six months!

This was a very late night picture. By then, Frank and Chasity Herman joined us for a late night dessert time. They are also dear friends of ours that we rarely get to visit with. Don't they all just look like they are having a blast! Trust me, it was late, but we were having fun.

Sadly, I did not get pics from Christmas/Christmas Eve with my family. It was just too busy to bring the camera out. After all the madness died down, the kids and I took an overnight trip to visit my mom in Fresno. What a great way to wind down from the holidays. I was able to caputure a few post holiday sales while I was there. (Love you, Mom.)

I hope your holidays were filled with much love, much laughter and of course, lots of good food! Oh yeah, and a Happy New Year too!

Have Yourself a Very Merry Christmas!

2008-12-25T08:36:00.000-08:00

Merry Christmas to you. Enjoy your day spending it with the ones you love most. I am very grateful to get to be with my family today.

Even more importantly, thank you Jesus. After all, HE is the reason for this season. Where would I be without HIM today? I can't even be able to think about what my life would have turned out like if HE had not saved my soul. I am forever thankful!

Merry Christmas! May your day be filled with lots of love, peace and joy. Love you all!

Hassas Photography - The Ethan Edition

2008-12-13T22:01:00.000-08:00

One day while I was frantically attempting to get my house in order, I heard Ethan tell me, "Mommy, say cheese." Frazzled, I turned to look at him only to find him with MY new pink camera in hand snapping my picture. Too shocked to scold him, I grabbed the camera from him and decided to take a look at the damage he had done. To my surprise, I was a little impressed. He not only knew how to turn on and operate the camera - sort of - but he took some pictures of himself AND some of me too. Below are some the results. Of course, I could not share the pictures of me inappropriately dressed for the occasion! It looks like we have a rising photographer in the family. If anyone would like to book a session with Ethan, just contact us! LOL

Enjoy!

Thanksgiving a Week Late

2008-12-04T20:36:00.000-08:00

So, for Thanksgiving this year the Hubbs and I decided to do a little something different. We spent the day not only hosting our very first Thanksgiving, but Sam actually cooked the turkey for the first time. Let me tell you, it was one of the best turkeys I've ever had! He was very proud of it too. He now insists cooking the turkey for Christmas too. He mentioned he would like to cook one every other month. That's turkey overkill if you ask me.

Allen, Malia, Maile, James and Jessica joined us for dinner. We felt blessed to open our home to these fine folks from our church that were too far away from their families to spend the holiday with them.

Much later that same evening our wonderful friends, the Wests, joined us for an after party. Leah and I had conspired earlier in the week that we would join the other crazies and go shopping at midnight. I guess we're both gettin pretty old as we were both pretty exhausted by the time 10:00 rolled around and debated on whether we should go or not. Being the faithful shoppers that we are (I won't tell you the nickname our special friend gave to us in regards to shopping) we peeled ourselves off the couch and headed out. Note the time in the background of the picture:

Don't we look just pooped out! LOL

Our original destination was the outlets in Gilroy, but again we were too pooped to make the drive. We opted for the not so Great Mall instead. Boy did we make a HUGE mistake! First of all it took us about 30 minutes to park. Since we could not get in to the actual parking lot of the mall, we parked across the street and walked with about 100 other crazies.

To our surprise, once we fought our way through the hundreds, probably thousands of people, this is what we found on the inside:

After two hours of wandering aimlessly through the crowd and a few stores, we left high on aloe-vera scented sweaty arm pits and very disappointed. We got a few dirty looks, and I believe a woman yelled a cuss word out at us as we invaded her space. Trust me there was no place to move -we never felt so violated in our lives. At one point I even held on to Leah's arm because I thought I would be knocked down and trampled on. To sum it up, misery is how I would describe this shopping trip. If any of you really know Leah and I, misery never describes how we feel when we're shopping. Yes, we're crazy for venturing out so late to shop. Never in a million years did we anticipate the number of people that turned out. Would I ever do it again at that mall again? Nooo way! Did I totally enjoy laughing at our miserable experience with Leah? You betcha!

Eight Years and Counting

2008-12-02T02:17:00.000-08:00

On November 25, 2008, Sam and I celebrated our eighth anniversary. Eight years, already? Unbelievable!

Since it fell on a Tuesday night (church night), and it was in the midst of a very busy week, the Hubbs promised to take me here for a post celebration. Awwww, reason number 101 to love him.

On the first Tuesday of every month we break out into groups according to age for a special "Connect" session. Several men in our church are teachers, and Sam was assigned the teen boys and girls. Tonight's lesson was about keeping borders and fences of protection in our lives. To make a long story short, I will just say that I marveled at his teaching. He was so lively and animated and held the kids' attention the entire time. We stopped to pray a few times during the lesson because we really felt the presence of God. It was awesome, and I can't say how much it touched my heart to watch Sam doing what he does best - ministering. God does have a special calling on his life.

Please allow me to share a few light-hearted reasons I think my Hubbs is so great:

This picture was taken after I returned home from running errands for a few hours. Sam was left in charge, and this is what I came home to. Let me just say I am thankful JP had a clean diaper on even though his onsie was snapped on the OUTSIDE of his pants.

Yes, this is a Christmas tree in le toilette! LOL Sam was worried about it drying out overnight because he did not know where we kept the tree stand. So, he found a temporary home for it. Luckily we have two bathrooms!

Special husband. Lucky girl. I am blessed!

Happy Thanksgiving

2008-11-27T08:23:00.001-08:00

The Hubbs and I our hosting Thanksgiving dinner today for church family. The Hubbs and I agreed when the Lord blessed us with our home that we would also dedicate it to His service. We feel blessed to be able to open our home to church family that do not have family in town. We are a little nervous as it is the first time we are cooking the bird! No worries though. If it does not turn out, we have tri-tips ready to be tossed on the BBQ. LOL I will be sure to post some pictures of our adventure.

On a thankful note, Tuesday night at church our pastor preached an awesome, thought provoking message using 1 Thessalonians 5:18:

In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.

During the difficulties of life it is so easy to focus on the negative and forget to be thankful for all that God has done. He has done so much for me, and I don't know where I would be today without His grace and mercy. I have an endless list of things to be thankful for today, and I owe it all to God for He has provided all my needs.

To those of you following the story of Christian and Stephanie Nielson, go here for a touching video message from Mr. Nielson. Oh, and make sure you have some tissue handy before you watch it.

To all of my friends in blog land: Have a wonderful Thanksgiving!

Fall Festivities

2008-11-05T23:41:00.001-08:00

The days seem to be flying by, and before you know it, Christmas will be here. Life has been busy as usual, but before another day went by, I thought I better post SOMETHING. Hopefully, Santa Claus will leave a little laptop for me under the tree so I can get better at checking/responding to email/Facebook as well as posting on my blog!

Well, we did get to visit the pumpkin patch this year and I even talked the Hubbs into bringing the camera along.

I had to include some pics of the cowboys too:

Just recently a few of us gathered at the home of Dave and Jennifer Nickens to celebrate Dave's 30th birthday. Here are a few pics of their loooovely home:

Jen's closet! Amazing - it's bigger than my bedroom, and every girl's dream come true. (sigh)

Jen's to-die-for kitchen - it comes complete with a bread warmer. Can you imagine that? When the Nickens throw a party, they do it right. We divulged in so many delicious appetizers that we had a difficult time eating dinner - NOT! LOL Happy Birthday, Dave!

Nie Nie Dialogues

2008-10-30T23:18:00.000-07:00

The Nielson Family
(This image was borrowed from the Nie Nie Dialogues)

For the past several weeks I have been closely following the blog: Nie Nie Dialogues. The author of this blog, Stephanie Nielson, and her husband, Christian were critically injured in a plane crash in August. (For detailed information regarding their story go here. The article is lengthy, but worth the read. Warning: kleenex is a must.) I can't quite pinpoint why I am so eager to read updates regarding this precious family. Maybe it is because the Neilsons are parents of four young children, and my heart aches for these babies. While reading the Nie Nie Dialogues, I have learned that Stephanie Nielson loves her husband and children with a great passion. I have been touched and inspired by her posts in regards to her family. It's worth spending a few minutes reading this blog for inspiration. It certainly has inspired me to strive to be the best wife and mother that I could possibly be. Thank you, Nie Nie.

For updates on the Nielson's recovery, etc. you can go here: C Jane Enjoy It. Courtney Kendrik is the sister of Stephanie Nielson, and is a gifted writer. Her posts are just as refreshing as Nie Nie's. This blog is a definite must-read.

Between Nie Nie Dialogues, C Jane Enjoy it and all the other bloggers attached to them, I have come across quite a few interesting and enjoyable blogs. It's amazing how large the blogging community really is. Almost EVERY night I am up reading these blogs, when I probably should be posting, sleeping or cleaning while the boys are sleeping, etc. etc. etc. The Hubbs has dubbed me the blog queen. I thought posting about my blog addiction would be a great way to sign off for the night. So, sweet dreams to you.

As for the Nielson family, God bless you. You are in my prayers.

I am Marianne Dashwood

2008-10-26T15:33:00.000-07:00

I just love Jane Austen, don't you? Favorite book: Pride & Prejudice.

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Godspeed, Little Men

2008-10-22T23:43:00.000-07:00

A few weeks ago my trusty little camera finally gave out on me. One day, the Hubbs came home and surprised me with a cutesy pink camera that I still have yet to learn to use. Someday (just like everything else) I will sit down and figure how to work this thing. In the meantime, I have been snapping shots of the boys as they grow. Jon~Paul is one week shy of nine months. Can you believe it, nine months? I honestly do not know where the time goes.

As far as Ethan and Jon~Paul are concerned, it's been a time of growing/learning for all of us. Since the age in our church nursery has changed from 3 to 2, I am currently attempting to get Ethan to sit through church. (Thank you KH for that wonderful book - Ethan LOVES it!) That alone is a serious draining task, but add a nursing ONLY squirmy nine month old baby who does NOT like to sleep and you get serious DRAMA. Let me stop and say I am so thankful to those sit around me at church (and you know who you are) who assist with JP while I am wrestling with Ethan. Yes, a wrestling match is what it looks like to those of you who watch me during church and wonder what in the world is going on in my corner! LOL The other night Ethan escaped my tight grasp and ran straight up to the pulpit. (I believe he was wanting to sing Freedom with our singing friend.) As hauled him away, I felt my face red hot, but to make matters worse I could feel every button on my suit pop open. Trust me, I made sure I was decent underneath, but this is just one more reminder to myself that even though the baby weight was gone long ago, I still have post marriage weight to lose - and LOTS of it. mwhaaaaaaaaaaa (this is my evil laugh).

I am proud to report that Jon~Paul is eating almost anything and everything, unlike Ethan. Now if I could just get him to take a sippee cup or a bottle, I would be ecstatic! Enough said.

On a lighter note, we have been making weekly trips to the library and storytime and it has been so much fun. Ethan enjoys it so much that the other night en route to church he asked if we were going to the library. Good times. Even though I could use a little ME time, i.e. a nap at least, I am enjoying this journey with the boys. I could never dream of it any another way.

There is a song I love called Godspeed/Sweet Dreams from the Dixie Chicks. I have it on my playlist. It reminds me so much of Ethan and Jon-Paul and what little boys are all about. The chorus:

Godspeed, little man
Sweet dreams, little man
My love will fly to you each night on angels wings
Godspeed, Sweet dreams

Okay, enough for now - really this post was to just to post some new pics from my camera, but I got a little carried away - so sorry.

Ethan and Jon~Paul: Godspeed, Little Men - Sweet Dreams.

Speak to My Heart

2008-10-14T23:42:00.000-07:00

Waiting on a word from the Lord is not an easy task. In the past few weeks I have had conversations with several friends/family members who are patiently waiting on a word from the Lord regarding their lives. Last night, after I got off the phone with a certain someone ,I had a heavy heart. While I just wanted to stop what I was doing and pray, I had to tend to the needs of my babies, etc. etc. etc. One thing lead to another, and I finally slipped into the shower still with a burden in my heart. Of all places to be an old but favorite song filled my head: Speak to My Heart (by Donnie McClurkin). So, I started to sing away while thinking of different situations and prayer requests. Today, the song is still in my heart. Since I have not heard it in many years , I decided to go to You Tube to find it. (The last time I heard a choir sing it was the heavenly Merced Choir, and nobody sings it like them. They are pure awesome!) While I am typing this post I am listening to the song for the 10th time!

The lyrics are as follows:

Speak to my heart Holy Spirit, Give me the words that will bring new life Words on the wings of the morning the dark nights will fade away, if you speak to my heart

Speak to my heart Holy Spirit, message of love to encourage me Lifting my heart from despair, How you love me and care for me Lord just speak to my heart

Speak to my heart Lord, give me your holy word, If I can hear from you, then I’ll know what to do I won't go alone, I’ll never go on my own, Just let your Spirit guide, and let you word abide

To those of you who are waiting for your word tonight, here's something to encourage you:

Isaiah 41:10 - Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness

Isaiah 41: 13 For I the Lord thy God will hold they right hand, saying unto thee, Fear not; I will help thee

While it's not always easy to wait on the Lord, I pray that God would give you peace through the storm. Love you.

(Note: Even though this post does not pertain to the pic of the Hubbs and I, I thought I would post it anyhow because it's nice to have pics with a post.)

Happy Birthday, Steve!

2008-10-02T17:17:00.001-07:00

Happy Happy Birthday, Steve! I talked to him this morning to wish him well, but won't get to celebrate with him until he arrives into town tomorrow for Maximum Velocity. Of course I am always overjoyed to spend time with Steve, Kelly, Mia and Micah. We just don't see them enough. A little over a year ago they moved away to pursue the will of God, but I miss them just the same.

Many years ago (Steve was 15 and I 17) I can remember the time I was driving down the street and saw Steve and one of his friends sadly walking along the road holding their skateboard. To my alarm, Steve had just been hit by a car. We could not believe that he hit the windshield, shattered the window and did a somersault on top of the car and survived. God has brought him a mighty long way since that time. Steve would tell you otherwise, but today I am so proud of the man that he has become. I love you, Steve. God is so faithful. Happy Birthday!

I've been tagged

2008-09-29T22:42:00.001-07:00

Skimming through blogland tonight (while trying to recover from the stomach flu), I came across to two blogs noting that I have been tagged. To the lovely young ladies, Yvonne and Chandra:

6 unspectacular things about me:

1. My middle name is Marie
2. I have 1 brother (Steve), 5 -half sisters (Tammy, Adrian, Sheila, Erica and Diana and 1- half brother Matthew (I guess you can call us the Brady Bunch).
3. I am addicted to Ebay
4. I love to be up early every morning - the earlier the better. (I have a friend who hates me for this because every time we stay together, I end up waking her up - smiles)
5. I want to learn how to sew in the worst way.
6. I LOVE to visit Disneyland at least once a year.

Rules:

1. link the person who tagged you

2. mention the rules on your blog

3. list 6 unspectacular things about you

4. tag 6 other bloggers

Not sure of they will participate, but:

Tag: Leah West, Kari Morgan, Lacy Alvarez, Jamie Prado, Nicole Rowell and Christina B.

Fall Is Here!

2008-09-23T15:31:00.000-07:00

Well, at least I think today is the first day of Fall. It is actually difficult to tell because it's not only 85 degrees today, but on my way home from Costco there was a very large man walking down the street with no shirt on thinking he was hot stuff - he was flexing his muscles and all. It actually made me lose my appetite for the hot dog I grabbed at the food court! Instant diet day.

Spring and summer are beautiful times of the year, but my favorite is fall/winter. I love the change in the colors of the leaves, tights, the overcast sky, sweaters, the chilly weather, sitting by the fireplace reading a good book, tights - oops did I already say tights? LOL There is nothing like Thanksgiving and Christmas and all the sights, sounds and food that come with them.

Speaking of the rapidly approaching holidays, if you are at all interested having beautiful pictures of your family taken for holiday cards, please contact my talented husband to book your session. He is already filling up quickly on family sessions. Please go to Hassas Photography for more information.

With the cold weather also comes comfort food! Yes, my favorite subject other than shopping - FOOD! (kidding) Anyhow, every year I try to attempt add something new to my recipes, but am constantly failing at roasts, mashed potatoes, any pasta dishes and alfredo sauce. Could some of you PLEASE help me out with your no fail roast, mashed potato and alfredo sauce recipes? I am determined to master these easy (not for me) dishes. I am also looking for any other comfort food recipes you might like to share. I promise to try each of them out and am willing to post pictures of my attempts along the way. PLEASE don't be shy - post those recipes!

Life Update

2008-09-03T23:03:00.000-07:00

Ethan was enjoying an ice cream sandwich. I can only guess who bought this for him. Hmmmm?

Jon-Paul and I freezing on the beach!

Jon-Paul enjoying his time with Auntie Leah West

Here's Ethan wearing himself out on the beach - He actually outlasted all of us adults! LOL

Howdy!

Well, once again I have managed to unintentionally neglect my blog. I apologize to my faithful readers (kidding). Anyhow, let me give you a quick update on what has been going on in our lives.

I went and spent five days in Fresno to visit my mom. I always enjoy spending time with my mom and shopping in Fresno, but I don't appreciate the heat! It was super hot as usual, but the kids and I had a great time of relaxation and fun.

The day we came back from Fresno, Sam and I took the kids to the circus. We were blessed by a dear friend with tickets - thank you thank you thank you. Ethan was so amazed by the animals, he talked about it for days. Sam does have some pics from our evening out, but I have not been able to wrestle them away from him as he is busy working on other stuff. Pictures will follow - someday.

Labor Day weekend we went camping to Castanoa on Highway 1 with Kellee, the Wests, the Prendez and the Othons. This was so much fun! We ate like kings and queens. (I want to say a big fat thank you to my friends that made this trip happen. I appreciate your true friendship more than you will ever know. We may have stuffed our faces the entire time, but this trip was medicine for my grief.) After this week is over a diet is mandatory for me!

As of today, Jon-Paul sounds like a baby seal from the croup and is in the process of cutting teeth. I have a funeral on Friday as well as a nursery staff meeting. I am a busy bee.

I promise to do my best not to neglect my blog. Quite honestly, I have made time to browse everyone else's blogs, but do not even have the energy to comment. Please keep checking in often - I just might surprise you. To all of you who like to peek, please leave a friendly note - I would love to know who visits once in a while. I hope all is well with all of you!

URGENT Prayer for Baby Luke Fernando

2008-08-06T22:52:00.000-07:00

Today I received a call from my dear friend, Jen Fernando requesting prayer for her baby boy, Luke. While at a routine doctor's visit, the doctor found a mass in Luke's tummy. I am so sad to report that they diagnosed him with liver cancer. He is only six month's old. In fact, he was born the same day as my son, Jon-Paul.

Tomorrow the doctors will be performing more tests to determine if the cancer has spread as well as to plan their course of action. They will either take the tumor and then proceed with chemo or proceed with chemo and then take the tumor. (Please pray that God will lead the doctors to the right decision.)

Whatever the case, please pray for the miraculous to be done in Luke's life and that God would give Jen and Ben peace and comfort through this storm. I cannot fathom what they are going through right now. They just recently moved to the Virgina area and are there with no family. I wish we could be right by their side to support them, but for now our prayers will have to do.

You may leave comments for them here, or go to my blog roll and leave a comment for Jen directly on her blog. I will be sure to give updates as I hear from Jen.

Happy Birthday Tawni, Jaimee, Lynna & Annette, Jen N. & Jen F!!!

2008-07-23T21:57:00.001-07:00

We miss you, Jen!

Jen Nickens is the beauty on the far right

The Escuderos & Us!

Auntie Jaimee & Luke

Beautiful Lynna

Annette & Ellie Soleil

This is a few days belated (as is ALL my business), but I wanted to wish my dear friends a happy birthday!

Happy Birthday, Tawni! (7/21) This is one great gal. She and her husband, Johannes, are special friends of ours. We always love spending time with them when time permits. I can always count on Tawni to keep me posted of special sales and fun places to shop! I hope she got a little prize for her birthday at the Nordies Anniversary Sale!

Happy Birthday, Jaimee! (7/15) Jaimee Prado and her husband are also special friends of ours! We get together at least once or twice a month for dinner. I especially appreciate them because they keep coming over to dine with us despite the fact that our son, Ethan, is stuck to Jaimee's side the entire night every time they are with us.

Happy Birthday, Lynna! (7/15) Lynna is such a doll. She is newly married and just recently graduated from college a few weeks ago. What a busy gal! We are looking forward to spending some time with the Willoughby's in the future.

Happy Birthday, Annette! (7/15) Annette is a friend that is so dear to my heart. I don't see very often, but love her to pieces! She is a busy mommy of two little adorable babies. We must make some time to get over to her part of the world to spend some time with her and Ryan. We miss you!

BIRTHDAY UPDATE: I inadvertently overlooked two some recent birthdays of some other special friends in my life: Jennifer Nickens and Jen Fernando! (Sorry my friends - I have a brain disease these days!)

Jen Nickens (7/1) is a lovely lady I met when she married her hubby, Dave, and they moved to East Valley. Over the years we shared some good times with them, and boy can she cook! We especially love dinners at their house because her food and desserts are always simply divine! They recently moved to Morgan Hill, and we rarely get an opportunity to visit with these fine folks either, but when we do we just pick up from where we left off! We love you Jen & Dave!

Jen Fernando (6/26) - Jen is a dear friend who married and moved away from us a few years ago! While she was here in San Jose we became so close that she moved in with us for some time and kept Gram company after my brother and I got married in the same year. So, you can say she is part of our family. We miss her terribly, but she is loving life with her wonderful husband and two darling boys. You can visit her blog - its listed in my blog roll. I hope your birthday was wonderful, Jen!

Happy belated birthday, my friends! My wish for you is that you all get the desires of your heart and then some!

Going Green

2008-07-23T21:08:00.001-07:00

All this talk about going green has my head spinning (faster than usual). I understand that there are chemicals in everything we eat, breathe, etc., and I am doing my best to help my household make the appropriate adjustments. I have switched to green cleaning products, and I slather California Baby products on my kids. It's pretty pricey, but I feel it's worth the trouble.

Next on my list to go green are my hair products and facial products. If any of you bloggers out there have some suggestions on this topic, please feel free to post! I am looking for hair products that not only work well, but smell good too!

Additionally, if there are any other "green" tips you may have for moi, please feel free to share!

4th of July Celebration - VERY Belated!

2008-07-17T13:00:00.000-07:00

We celebrated the 4th of July with a few friends. Jason and Leah West, Johannes and Tawni Escudero, Tirso and Rachel Gonzalez and Scott and Laila Wilder were all in attendance. We enjoyed a feast together. It was a nice and relaxing time of fellowship. The kids had a blast too! I made sure they had plenty to do. We ate so much that my hub and Scott fell asleep! I attached a some pics for your enjoyment.

God Bless America

2008-07-04T00:08:00.001-07:00

As I am preparing for our 4th of July festivities, God Bless America has been ringing in my head. The lyrics are as follows:

God bless America
Land that I love
Stand beside her
And guide her
Through the night
With the light
From above

From the mountains
To the prairies
To the oceans
White with foam
God bless America
My home sweet home

As I reflect tonight during this post, I am so very grateful that America is my home sweet home! I am guilty of taking for granted of what living in America really means. There is so much to be thankful for, but most of all, I am grateful that I am able to worship the one true living God and attend one of the greatest churches ever! Thank God for freedom! Sure, times are uncertain, i.e., gas prices, politics, etc. etc., but I still wouldn't want to live anywhere else in this world.

The other day the boys and I went to pick Sam up from the airport. As I circled each time in waiting for his arrival, my attention was diverted to a group of anxious family members holding American flags. On about my 20th time around, a group of soldiers came out of the building and the crowd went wild. Each time I went around, I cranked my neck to see loved ones embracing and the others wildly waving their flags. It brought tears to my eyes and goosebumps all over. Once I picked up Sam, he took over the wheel and as we passed by the soldiers we honked the horn and I blew a kiss (yeah corny - so what! LOL). In return they beamed and waved at us. It was so touching. This leads me to thank all of the brave men and women that have fought and risked/lost their lives for my freedom, my family's freedom for your family's freedom. May God bless each and every one of them and their family members on this day.

I am so blessed to call America my home. Happy 4th of July!

Spicy Momma's Reunion

2008-06-26T00:16:00.000-07:00

A few years ago, a few friends and I decided to start a monthly get-together and we named it Spicy Mommas. Our husbands had a good time trying to rename us: Hot Mommas, Big Mommas - you name it! Once a month we would get together at a different house. The hostess of that particular house would do a cooking demonstration for all of us and then we would eat together once the meal was prepared. This was such an awesome experience for me because I had complained how I could not cook (and still can't) so I not only had a great time of fellowship, but also came away with a few good recipes and entertaining tips.

Believe me we had such a good time at these gatherings. We laughed together, cried together, got pregnant together, etc. etc. Really, at one time four of us were pregnant together, literally due within weeks apart from each other. My sis-in-law, Kelly and I were due on the same day - May 1, 2005. (Ethan was born 4/29/05 and Micah arrived on his due date, 5/1/05!) There was a joke amongst us that there was something in the water we were drinking at our Spicy Momma dinners, and if you didn't want to get pregnant, it was best not to join us! LOL

Sadly, our fun little group is no longer as life has taken most of us in different directions. Kelly and Steve are temporarily relocated to Turlock. Dean and Amy have moved on to the Sacramento area where Dean is serving as Chaplain in the CHP. Chris and Rebecca Chastain have moved on to Colorado where they just purchased a new home and are expecting a baby boy in a few months. Dave and Jen Nickens have also relocated to the Morgan Hill area.

Two weeks ago, we decided to get together for a little reunion since Rebecca was here for a visit, and I've posted some pictures of our time together. (Leah West was missing from our luncheon due to her work schedule.) I totally miss this precious time with the mommas. When lunch was over and it was time to say goodbye the tears started to roll. Hopefully, we get together again real soon. In the meantime, maybe this is something I need to start up in my own little corner of the world. Kellee, are you up to teaching us how to make guacamole?!

Nicole Rowell's Baby Shower

2008-06-18T22:45:00.000-07:00

I attended the baby shower of my long lost friend, Nicole Rowell, a few weeks ago. We grew up together at EVUPC, but lost touch a few years ago. We were amazingly reunited with a help of a friend! Let me just say that God has truly performed the miraculous in Nicole's life. Maybe one day she will feel to share a little of her testimony on her blog. God has blessed her with a wonderful and caring husband, and now they have a little one on the way. They live in Southern California, but drove on up here to San Jose for her baby shower. It was so nice getting a chance to catch up with Nicole as well as with some other ladies from East Valley whom I dearly miss.

Congratulations Nicole and Jared! May God continue to shine His face upon your little family.

Congratulations Jesse & Lynna!

2008-06-09T08:47:00.000-07:00

I am a little behind on blog entries. (surprise surprise!)

We attended the wedding of Jesse and Lynna Willoughby on 5/30/08. Jon-Paul was my date as my husband was their photographer.

The wedding and reception were held at the same location, the beautiful Corinthian Event Center. Every detail about this wedding was so classy and elegant. Lynna has such style that she even designed her own wedding dress! It was nice to catch up with old friends and even fellow bloggers, Sis. Carol Connell and her daughter, Jen!

I have attached some photos of the lovely couple and the event. I'm sure my hubby will have their wedding pictures posted soon on his blog. So far, their pics look fabulous!

Congratulations Jesse and Lynna!

*NOTE: Sam has posted some of their pics on his blog! Take a peek!

Update

2008-06-07T23:13:00.000-07:00

Yes, I know I have neglected my blog once again. Really this is not intentional, but I just have to find the right routine for my every day busy life and stick to it!

I thought I post some pics of my cutie pies. They grow so quickly!

I was recently tagged by Kari Morgan to pen a six word memoir. Finally, I will attempt to post one. In an effort to come up with a six word memoir, I thought about a few funny things that have happened to me the past couple of weeks. The other day I took Ethan to the park and realized after an hour of play I noticed I put his shoes on the wrong feet! Poor little guy. He never complained once, but I wanted to cry! Additionally, when I came out of the store on Wednesday I almost had a panic attack when I could not get my key to open my car door. I thought for sure my key broke and I would be stuck with the baby in tow. After a few minutes of trying and panicking I realized that I was not standing at my own vehicle. It was a black Montero - ours is blue!

Therefore, at this time, my six word memoir would have to be:

I need a mental health vacation! (LOL)

Happy Birthday Kellee!

2008-05-22T00:01:00.000-07:00

Happy Birthday Kellee Hopper!

Kellee's birthday was 5/18/08, and we celebrated by taking her out to lunch Sunday afternoon to Maggiano's in Santa Row. Our lovely pastor's wife, Tasha Shoemake, Michelle, Rose, Tina and Leah and myself were all in attendance. Kim Johnson was invited as a special "surprise" guest! Boy, was Kellee sure surprised (see pic). We had a great time celebrating with Kellee. We ate and laughed and ate and laughed and laughed and laughed. I think we laughed more than we ate! Really, it's difficult to do that at Maggiano's since they serve so much food.

I do not think there is enough space to write all the wonderful things about Kellee. I am so blessed that she is my friend! She is such a joy to be around and she makes the BEST guacamole! I could go on and on . . . .

Happy birthday to you dear Kellee! May all of your wishes come true this year!

Happy Birthday Bryan!

2008-05-21T23:49:00.001-07:00

The birthday boy, his wifey and little Luke Herras.

Siena, Sis. Willoughby, Angela Willoughby and Sis. Herras.

This cake was made by Angela Willoughby! Isn't is so cool?!

On Saturday, 5/17/08, the hub and I hosted a small birthday party for a great friend of ours, Bryan VanHeusen. We have known Bryan and his lovely wife, Siena, for a few years now and have grown to love them like our own family. Here's some pics from our little get-together. Happy Birthday Bryan!

Happy Mother's Day!

2008-05-12T08:55:00.001-07:00

Happy Mother's Day!
I wanted to send a belated wish all of the lovely mommies that read this blog!
I hope your day was filled with love, laughter and blessings!

Right before bedtime last night, Sam tried to shoot some pics of the boys. As you can tell, they were not too cooperative, but I had to post some anyhow. This is what mother's day is about, right? LOL Enjoy!

Baby #18!

2008-05-10T00:25:00.000-07:00

Just in time for Mother's Day, today in the news I read that the famous Duggar family is going to be blessed with baby #18 due January 1, 2009! Please tell me how a mother can endure that many pregnancies, and manage to raise them all without going crazy! I can barely manage two. LOL

Here's an example of my mom madness as a result of lack of sleep: Just today I waited in a long line at Taco Bell for a bean and cheese burrito. As I reached the window to pay for and receive my food, I realized (to my horror) that I sailed right past the order speaker and never placed an order! I was so embarrassed I thought I was going to have a heart attack!

Hmmmm, maybe I should contact Mrs. Duggar for some sanity tips. It sure looks like she has mastered motherhood gracefully.

Happy Mother's Day Mrs. Duggar!

Lynna's Bridal Shower

2008-05-05T23:54:00.000-07:00

Jaimee Prado and Lynna Herras

Leah, Lynna and Jaimee

Siena and Jon~Paul

The Mad Hatters

Ellie Soleil Herras and Jon~Paul

On Saturday, 4/26/08, I attended the bridal shower of Lynna Herras, soon to be Willoughby. Isn't Willoughby such a classy last name? It reminds me so much of the character from Sense and Sensibility. (I am a BIG Jane Austen fan!)

This is a big year for Lynna. She is graduating from Holy Names college AND she is getting married on 5/30/08! It seems like yesterday she was just a baby girl and now she has grown up in a flash before my eyes. She has found her "Mr. Darcy." Jessee Willoughby is a terrific young man who loves the Lord with all of his heart. I have never seen a young man so smitten over a young lady! Whenever these two are around it just makes me smile because their love lights up the room. These are two very special young people, and I am so happy they will be spending the rest of their lives together.

Sis. Herras did a beautiful job putting together Lynna's tea themed bridal shower. I know she had lots of help from the bridesmaids and her wonderful family. I truly enjoyed getting the opportunity to catch up with friends that I have not seen in some time. Plus, it's always a treat getting to spend time with the Herras family. This family is dear to my heart and I consider them my own family too.

I thought I took more pictures, but I guess I was too busy chatting away that missed some great photo opportunities. For more photos of the shower, see Jaimee Prado's blog.

Congratulations, Lynna!

Brag Session

2008-04-30T18:23:00.000-07:00

Every now and then I just have to brag a little on my hubby. He just completed a second photo session of the Johnson girls (Mikaela and Megan - daughters of Todd and Kim Johnson). All I can say is I am just amazed. I absolutely LOVE these pics so much that I want to either try for a girl (hmmm) or buy a tu tu skirt for myself, even though I don't believe they come in my size. (Eeeks!)

Anyhow, I am posting one picture for your enjoyment, but feel free to visit his blog to see the rest of the lovely pictures of these adorable little ladies.

Happy Birthday Ethan!

2008-04-29T16:48:00.000-07:00

Today is Ethan's third birthday! I really cannot believe how quickly he has grown. Before I know it he will be a young man. Boo Hoo. My husband told me he read an article on Digg that once boys leave the home they rarely contact their moms. This news broke my heart, and Sam even admitted to feeling sorry for me after reading this. I hope this does not hold true with either of my boys. (sigh)

Anyhow, for those of you who do not know Ethan he is one big ball of energy. I should be super skinny for chasing him around the way I do! LOL Yes, he is a busy bee and he keeps us running, but he is also such a joy. We just don't know what is going to do or say these days. Just this morning I briefly walked out of the room to grab something and I heard him praying over Jon~Paul. It was the sweetest thing. When I came back into the room I asked him to pray for me - and he did with "stammering" lips! LOL

The picture that is posted is from Sunday night at church. Our pastor, Jonathan Shoemake, decided to actually pick Ethan up and hold him during the ENTIRE altar call. I attempted to get Ethan, but Ethan wouldn't have it. He wanted to stay with Pastor. When all was said and done, our pastor sat Ethan down in his chair on the platform and to my surprise he sat there for a good 20 minutes. I guess miracles can happen.

I have also included an updated pic of the baby for those of you asking. Really, I promise to get some more up real soon.

Happy Birthday Ethan! We love you!!!!!

Summer Shoe Pledge

2008-04-14T23:29:00.000-07:00

Summer is right around the corner, and last week in California we had a preview of what lies in store for us in regards to the beautiful warm weather. (Personally, although I love the sunshine, I really love overcast rainy days that allow me to sit near a fire, wrapped up in a warm blanket with a hot cup of coffee and a good book!)

Therefore, I thought I would share the following summer shoe pledge with all of you fellow gals that love opened toed shoes as much as I do. Enjoy!

Summer Shoe Pledge

Please raise your big toes and repeat after me:

As a member of the Cute Girl Sisterhood, I pledge to follow the rules when I wear sandals and other open-toe shoes.

I promise to always wear sandals that fit.

My toes will not hang over and touch the ground, nor will my heels spill over the backs. And the sides and tops of my feet will not pudge out between the straps.

I will go polish-free or vow to keep the polish fresh, intact and chip-free. I will not cheat and just touch up my big toe.

I will sand down any mounds of skin before they turn hard and yellow.

I will shave the hairs off my big toe.

I won't wear pantyhose even if my misinformed girlfriend, coworker, mother, sister tells me the toe seam really will stay under my toes if I tuck it the real good. (NOTE: Sandalfoot pantyhose are acceptable :-))

If a strap breaks, I won't duct-tape, pin, glue or tuck it back into place hoping it will stay put. I will get my shoe fixed or toss it.

I will not live in corn denial, rather I will lean on my good friend Dr. Scholls if my feet need him.

I will resist the urge to buy jelly shoes at Payless for the low, low price of $4.99 even if my feet are small enough to fit into the kids' sizes. This is out of concern for my safety, and the safety of others. No one can walk properly when standing in a pool of sweat and I would hate to take someone down with me as I fall and break my ankle.

I will take my toe ring off toward the end of the day if my toes swell and begin to look like Vienna sausages.

If I have been privvy to the magic that is Foot Soup, I will share that knowledge and experience with the non-initiated.
I will be brutally honest with my girlfriend/sister/coworker when she asks me if her feet are too ugly to wear sandals. Someone has to tell her that her toes are as long as my fingers and no sandal makes creepy feet look good.
Can I hear y'all say Amen?!

Easter Sunday

2008-03-28T09:34:00.000-07:00

We had a great time on Easter Sunday. I am so sad that I missed the opportunity to snap a picture of the boys because I was able to get them matching outfits. By the time Sunday School was over, Ethan was a complete MESS! My Aunt Terri joined Sam and I for Sunday morning service. We were so happy to have her there with us. I mentioned in a previous post the Blue Bomber crew were shooting for a goal of 100 kids on the bus - they reached their goal - 105 kids! Praise God!

Sunday night was our annual Easter concert. I enjoyed all the different groups and songs that were sung. I finally got the guts up to join the mass choir and sang for the first time - I had fun.

I hope you all had a wonderful Easter.

Update - finally!

2008-03-27T16:02:00.001-07:00

Howdy!

At least five people have brought to my attention that my blog needs updating! I apologize for the massive delay, but I had no idea life with two babies would consume my days. No complaints here as I am cherishing the time with the kids before I return to work in May, but I do look forward to getting a little time to myself. When I started this blog I had no intentions to let it lag, but life has a way of taking over.

Last week the boys and I headed out to Fresno to visit my mom. I left Ethan behind and took off to youth convention for the last two days. This youth convention was historic in that it would be the last year Northern and Southern California would be together. I am so glad I went - it was one of the best youth conventions I have ever been to! Even better when I was actually a young person - well I still am a young person (LOL) just not a single young person!

Anyhow, I had a blast getting a chance to visit with friends and watching the young people having the time of their lives. The altar calls were amazing (see photo below). I also enjoyed checking out the latest fashions and hair-do's of all the gals. I thought maybe there was a possibility I could find a new do to replicate for myself since I am tired of wearing a boring old knot in the back of my head!

You know how much I adore my brother and his wife - I just have to say they did an awesome job planning/organizing their first youth convention (along with the Barkers and the rest of the youth board). I stayed in their adjoining room and helped out a little with Mia for them. Let me tell you they were physically exhausted beyond measure, but they enjoyed almost every minute of it. We sat and talked about all the fun memories we had from youth conventions past. I do not have one picture of the two of them together at YC because they were so busy they were never together. I am looking forward to the day I can send my boys to youth convention with their mama and daddy in tow of course. Fun times are in the future!

Here's Steve leading service. I am so proud of him. I know he never thought in a million years he would be in this position - from bus kid (practically) to youth president and pastor - God is so good!

Here's the altar call from Thursday night - awesome! I believe over 30 brand new young people got the Holy Ghost for the first time! This is what youth convention is all about.

Dave and Monique McGovern. He is the newly appointed director of promotions for Southern California and also received the youth director of the year award. Congratulations!

Bro. and Sis. Emory - what can I say! His preaching is so "off the hook!" I love this couple dearly and I pray God pours His blessings on them beyond measure!

Jason and Leah West (with my love, Jon~Paul). Jason served as Director of Promotions for the north and holds the position of Section 9 youth director. This busy young man also happens to be the awesome youth pastor at our home church. But you know, behind every good man there is an awesome woman - LEAH! She is not only my dear friend, but also my partner in crime(s)!

Here's Leah and I after we cried our eyes out praying for one another Thursday night. Don't we look like beauty queens?! (lol)

Steve and Brigitte Barker. This is one amazing couple. Bro. Barker serves as the district youth secretary. From what I understand, he did the heavy planning of youth convention and did an wonderful job!

Happy Monday!

2008-03-03T14:13:00.001-08:00

Sorry to the delay in posting. Getting adjusted at home with a newborn and a toddler has been a little more work that I anticipated! (The large dark Gucci bags under my eyes will prove it! I know all you moms can sympathize with me. LOL)

I thought I would post a small, but great praise report. As you all know, in December my husband had back surgery. It left him in great pain, and the doctor anticipated he would have to endure a second and more intense surgery. Almost two weeks ago he had three cortisone epidural injections in his back. The doctor suggested we try this before proceeding with the second surgery. To our surprise, the injections worked, and Sam is almost pain free! Thank you Jesus! I can't tell you how relieved we are. The next step is to find out how long these injections will work. For now, we'll just rejoice in this blessing.

On another positive note, yesterday at church our Sunday School Bus outreach team, otherwise known as the "Blue Bombers", broke the attendance record - there were a total of 86 bus kids in Sunday School and an additional six families from the bus route in church yesterday morning. Our goal for Easter Sunday is 100+, and I have no doubt we will hit that number. Our little bus only holds 28 max so the outreach team has to make multiple trips to the surrounding neighborhoods. Soon families with SUVs in our church will be helping out with the overload too. It's a very exciting time of revival at the First Church. Be sure to stop by for a visit if you live in our area. There is nothing like it!

For now life has slowed down for me greatly. I am at home most of the time tending to the kiddies. I do not dare venture out with the both kids. I attempted this last week when I had to go to the pharmacy for a prescription. That was enough to keep me in doors for a while.

I have had a chance to catch up on some reading, however. I will post on the four books I read recently in another post. My tired brain won't let me remember the titles of the books or the authors - now that's scary! Currently, I am reading The Princess from Lori Wick. So far it's pretty good. I can hardly wait to find out the ending. Check back in the near future to find out if this one is worth reading.

If I don't get a chance to post soon, have a good week!

Yes, I'm Alive!

2008-02-22T14:05:00.000-08:00

It's been a little over three weeks since Jon-Paul was born and I am just now starting to feel a little like myself again. I am very sleep deprived, but am thankful that I am recovering much quicker than expected. A new post is in order!

Sam gave Jon-Paul his first haircut. He is just a tiny little baby, but you just would not believe all the hair he had. I thought I might be able to stick a few barrettes in his hair to hold it out of his eyes. (kidding) He is still so beautiful, but with a lot less hair!

The pics above were taken this morning of both boys. Nope, these are not Sam's wonderful pictures. They were taken by moi with my cheap little camera. I'm sure my husband will have a heart attack when he sees them. Sam needed a small break from snapping pictures since this morning he went in for three epidural steroid injections for his continuing back problems. Poor guy came home after the procedure in much pain and went right to bed. Please pray with me that these injections will work wonders and he will not require that second surgery. I think Sam and I have been cut up enough the past two months to last us a lifetime!

This Sunday I will finally attend church with Jon-Paul! I feel like I haven't been there forever! I have made a point to watch live services online while I have been recovering, and am so thankful for that. Nothing compares to actually being in the house of God though, and I am so looking forward to it.

Our annual Ladies Conference is currently taking place in Visalia this weekend. I am so bummed that I have to miss out this year. Those that are attending I am sure will be greatly blessed. Kelly, my SIL, is there with her sister and I hope they are having a wonderful time!

I will be sure to post a little more often as time permits. I feel like I am changing diapers and feeding all day long. It would be nice to comb my hair once in a while. That is exactly why there are no pictures of me posted. Eeek!

Introduction: Jon~Paul Jackson Hassas

2008-02-05T23:23:00.000-08:00

So I decided to hijack, (ironic seeing how I'm Middle Eastern,.....anyway) my wife's blog and introduce to the world the newest edition to the Hassas Family. Jon~Paul Jackson Hassas was born by C~section, Wednesday, January 30th. at 1:18 P.M. He was 7 lbs 12 oz. He's an absolute stud. Many of you are wondering where Jackson came from seeing how it wasn't even an original choice to begin with. I dunno, just came home Friday night thinking about Zion being his middle name for the rest of his life and decided it didn't fit. Nothing was formally written in his birth certificate yet so I hopped on the net, combed through about 1,000 names and came across Jackson. I loved it and so did Moni. Jackson it is.

We both had a strong sense of nostalgia just walking into the hospital, (Ethan was born at Good Sam also). The place even smelled the same, all hospitals smell that way I guess. It's like a weird mix of Windex and tuna......I dunno maybe it's just me. To add to our nostalgia we even had the same anesthesiologists and delivery nurse along with Dr. Kunzel, Moni's doctor who delivered Ethan. Talk about reunion. Let's get ready to rumble.

O.K. look, if I've never said it before I'll say it now, I'm glad I'm a dude!! Dude to the core. DUDES FOREVER! I'm glad I don't have to wear nylons, high heels or a bra, there I said it. Guys, it's a good day to be a man. That said I have the UTMOST respect to you ladies. You guys are amazing and we have it too easy. There is no way I could ever go through what you guys go through to bring a human being into the world. Holy Moly....I'm starting to sweat again just thinking about it. Moni sweetheart, Valentines will be extra special this year, you deserve it, you all deserve it.

All together I took about 1,000 picture over the 3 days we were at the hospital. I'm uploading about 20 to tell the story from our experience. Someone remind me to to buy a rubber protective housing for my camera next time I decide to photo my wife giving birth. I nearly past out several times. I almost asked for an epidural for myself. The whole day gave me a real National Geographic experience. I'm planning on making a story book for the day. Stay tuned as you'll get an invite to check it out. Enjoy the photos.

~Sam

Getting there, Moni's Mom asked me to get this shot to get an idea of what she looked like just before birth.

So what so special about this photo? The next photo will show you who took it.
I promise you he knows how to operate it. He shoot and then looks at the picture to see if it's right.

This just amazes me. This is LIFE! So awesome.

I plan on doing a side by side comparison of these photos of Jon~Paul and Ethan's birth. I promise they were a spitten image of each other. Uncanny.

Helloooo everyone
O.K., do you see the little mark on his right hand just below his writs? The mark is actually a layer of skin that has been gnawed down by Jon~Paul while in the womb!! You guessed it, he'll be a thumb sucker.

Classic, I love this

Night night Jon~Paul, Welcome to our world.

Baby Shower

2008-01-26T22:20:00.000-08:00

On Friday, 1/25/08, a few precious gals from church had a lovely baby shower for me hosted in the home of Sonia Hernandez. She and Leah West did most of the planning/decorating, and had lots of help from some of the other ladies. I wanted to say a great big THANK YOU to all that helped out and to all the drove in the weary weather to be there to celebrate with me. I enjoyed the yummy food and the wonderful fellowship of each of you. Additionally, I can't thank you all enough for the special gifts I received. I was especially touched by the generosity of Sonia, Leah, Kellee, Tina and Trish for purchasing our double stroller! I wasn't even expecting it, but God knew what I needed! May God bless each of you for being such a blessing to me! I really cannot thank you enough. Love you all.

Commitment Service

2008-01-25T16:15:00.000-08:00

On a previous post I mentioned the First Church was going to have our annual commitment services. Myself and Sonia Hernandez are over the nursery ministry. I wanted post a picture of our booth to give you an idea how much fun a commitment service can actually be. We are still waiting a final list of volunteers, but I have a feeling we did pretty good. We even got four husbands to sign up!

Here's Sis. Filo and Sis. Sandy representing the Music Ministry

Kellee Hopper and her crew representing the Multimedia Ministry

Malia and Bro. Parnell representing Sunday School

Here are a few of our Blue Bomber Crew. The Blue Bomber refers to our Sunday School bus. Almost every Saturday the Blue Bomber Crew goes out to the surrounding neighborhoods and gathers children for Sunday School. A few Sundays ago, we had 72 children - a record breaker! God is working miracles in this department. Thank you Jason West and his Blue Bomber crew for their hard work and dedication!

These are just a few of the ministries in our church. I did not have the opportunity to go to each one to snap a picture. Overall, we had a great time at our Commitment service of 2008!

Baby Update

2008-01-23T15:54:00.000-08:00

I received a call from my doctor's office today that they have to move the date up for my scheduled c-section. The date is now going to be Wednesday, January 30, 2008 at 1:00 p.m. I am a little disappointed as it gives me two less days to get things in order, but on the other hand, it will be nice to finally meet the newest addition to our family. Additionally, please pray for my nerves. I know I sound like the biggest baby, but the thought of being alert during surgery scares the fire out of me!

In the meantime, I will be busy preparing, etc. etc. So, if I have no new posts, you know why. Be sure to check back anyhow as I am going to ask my husband to post on my blog as well as post some pics of the baby, etc.

If I have the time, I am even going to attempt to bake a red velvet cake that Sis. Allard posted the recipe for on her blog. It just sounds so good!

We Have a Date

2008-01-17T09:32:00.000-08:00

To those of you who have been asking, we have finally set a date for the arrival of our son via c-section: 2/1/08 at at 7:30 a.m.

I will be sure to keep regular updates on my blog the best I can as the days fly by.

As for today, I am totally excited because it's my last day of work! Until the baby arrives I will be busy planning and organizing as well as scheduling a manicure and pedicure for myself! I can hardly wait.

On another note, Sam goes for another MRI today at 1:00. This MRI will determine whether or not he will be having a second surgery. I am praying for God to work a miracle for us in this regard so Sam will not have to have surgery again. Otherwise, it will be a race to see which one of us beats the other to operating room! Really, I know this is part of the test that God has set before us. Some days I have chosen to feel sorry for myself, but after the message (It's Not Fair!) Bro. Ari Prado delievered to us at church on Sunday night (Really, I could be the poster child for this message - LOL) I am going to change my attitude and make up my mind that I am going to trust in the Lord no matter what the future holds. Not only do I intend to post praise reports, but my husband will have lots of encouraging messages to preach after it's all said and done!

I promise my blog won't always be about our crazy life, but for now, life is just a little overwhelming.

Thanks for your vote!

2008-01-15T08:32:00.000-08:00

To all of you who took the time to stop by and vote for a middle name for our soon-to-be-born son, Jon-Paul, thank you! It looks like Nicholas won out (yeah), but Sam is still not in favor of it. He really loves Zion. So, within the next two weeks or so, I promise to let you know the end result! I am going to the doctor this Wednesday to select a date for a scheduled c-section (boo-hoo). We need to decide on the name quickly because time is running out.

Personally, I think because I am the one that is going to endure all the pain, I should choose the middle name, don't you? LOL

Have a great day!

ANY IDEAS?

2008-01-07T15:09:00.000-08:00

Our church will be having our annual commitment services on 1/13/08. Each ministry in the church will have the opportunity to decorate their own table and bring in some type of goodies to eat since that is what we all do best!

Sonia Hernandez and I oversee the nursery ministry. If any of you have ever worked in the nursery ministry (I'm sure most of you have) then you know it's like asking ladies for their right kidney to get them to sign up.

Since dabbling in the blog world, I know there are lots of creative ladies/gents who read this blog and I would like to ask for your input. Any ideas on how to make our table more alluring to those potential nursery volunteers? I do have few of my own ideas, but any helpful hints are more than welcome!

On another note, yesterday at church we had two AWESOME services! Bro. Rick Mayo preached both services, and he totally ministered to our congregation. His messages were a confirmation of our pastor's vision for our church in 2008! Last night's message was called "Dream Again." I'm sure I could have sobbed in the altar for hours, but was too worried about rescuing our nursery workers from my son and all the other kiddies keeping them hostage. (smiles) Thank you, Bro. Mayo for your ministry, but most of all, thank you Jesus for your precious word that touched the depths of our hearts. May we never be the same again! May our homes never be the same - May we have a prayer life like never before! It's truly time for a "breakthrough."

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

2008-01-01T22:13:00.000-08:00

I just wanted to wish everyone a very Happy New Year!

My energy level is quickly fading, otherwise I would have pictures to post from our gathering last night and from church on Sunday night.

Our end of the year service Sunday night was complete with communion and a deep move of God. I can't say enough how much I appreciate our pastor, Jonathan Shoemake, and his vision for our church. For the First Church of San Jose, 2007 was the year of "Blessing" and the theme for 2008 is "Breakthrough." Really, I cannot wait to see what God has in store for us. By the end of the year our bus ministry reached a grand total of 76 children! We doubled our number in baptisms from 2006 and we are looking for a much higher goal this year. It's an exciting time at the First Church. If you are in the area, please feel free to stop by. It's a life-changing experience!

Our commitment services are coming up on January 13th. I am also anticipating a large number of ladies to sign up for nursery ministry this year (wink wink)!

Since Sam was in no condition to leave the house, the Wests, the Martinez, the Prados, Kellee H., The Bellas, Brandon and Lisa joined us to help us ring in the new year. We had a TON of delicious food. I especially appreciate the fellowship. I laughed so hard I thought I was going to go into labor! Thank you all to making our New Year's eve so much fun.

The Caballero Family

2007-12-28T00:38:00.000-08:00

Following the week of Sam's surgery, my brother and sister-in-law, Steve and Kelly, came and took Ethan home with them to Delhi for four days so I could be at work and Sam could recover a little easier. As much as we missed Ethan, this turned out to be a big blessing for us. Sam cannot lift more than 10 pounds or bend very well, so lifting Ethan is out of the question! (Please keep Sam in your prayers as he is still recovering and is in so much pain - I still declare God is in control!)

Kelly is not just the most wonderful sis-in-law ever, but I truly consider her my very own sister and best friend. I have to give her some special recognition for the tremendous help she has been to me these past couple of days.

Steve, Kelly and the kids arrived at our home on Christmas morning and she worked non-stop ever since. Yesterday and today, she helped me sort through Ethan's clothes, buy and put together a closet organizer for the boys' room since they will be sharing, move furniture (she moved a whole armoire by herself!) put together Ethan's toddler bed and took down my Christmas ornaments off the tree!

She did all of this while I not only had a house full of family, but our kids needed constant attention AND she helped my brother with the organization of the Reality Conference this week! She is superwoman!

I can't say thank you enough to this lovely lady for being such a blessing to me. She is truly a jewel, and I am so thankful she is part of my family.

Speaking of family, I can't close this post without posting a little about my brother, Steve. I mentioned before that there are several changes going on in my own home, but Steve and Kelly have had a few of their own this year.

First of all, the Caballeros have accepted the challenge to start a home missions work in San Rafael. You can visit their website here. They put their newly remodeled home up for sale, and have temporarily relocated to Kelly's parents' home in Delhi until they can raise their funds to go to San Rafael. Twice a month they have been traveling to San Rafael for Sunday services. This is not only an exciting time in their lives, but also an extreme challenge of their faith. I know God is going to greatly use them and shine His face upon them for their sacrifice. Please remember to say a little prayer for them as they travel through this journey in their lives.

In May of 2007, Steve was also voted in as Youth President of the Western District. Even though many changes are taking place within our organization and district, I believe God placed him in this position for a reason and couldn't be more proud of him. No way am I bragging at all - If you only knew where God brought us from to where we are today it's truly a miracle! God has poured out His grace and mercy upon us from the time we were small children living with our mom in an apartment complex full of Holy Ghost filled saints from East Valley Pentecostal Church. God surely has a big plans for Steve's life, and I can't wait to see what He has in store for this precious family of mine.

Steve, Kelly, Mia and Micah - I love you! You mean so much to me.

A New Bed For My Little Prince

2007-12-27T23:46:00.000-08:00

As of today, I am 34 weeks pregnant with our second son. Time is flying by, and we realized we had to make some significant changes - QUICK. So, last week I ordered a toddler bed for Ethan. It arrived today, and my awesome sis-in-law, Kelly, helped me not only put the bed together, but prepared the room for me. (More on this in another post to come.)

In preparation of getting the new bed/bedding put together, yesterday we got out Ethan's baby clothes to take inventory and sort and figure out what we need for the next little prince. As I went through the clothes so many emotions ran through my head all at once: I can't believe how quickly Ethan has grown. I can't believe we are actually having another baby. How is Ethan going to feel about this? Am I going to be able to maintain my sanity? Will I have enough love for two? Will Sam be able to maintain HIS sanity with me? I need more time to plan!

I guess you can say I had a little breakdown and began to cry (surprise surprise - lol).

Tonight, Sam and I put our sweet little boy to bed in his new big boy bed and we just had to share it. As parents, it's just as precious as the day we watched him walk for the first time. It took about a good 45 minutes to convince Ethan to stay in his bed. He came out once to check on us, and we quickly ushered him back to his bed. When we went to check on him a few minutes later, he was fast asleep and Sam snapped a few pics for your enjoyment. If any one of you have suggestions on making this transition easier, please feel free to share! I need all the help I can get.

So many changes are taking place within my little home that it makes my head spin. I appreciate you letting me share it all with you.

Sweet dreams, Ethan - I love you

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Merry Belated Christmas!

2007-12-27T18:26:00.001-08:00

The most wonderful time of the year has turned into the most busy time of the year! Between the holiday, tending to my recovering husband, chasing my toddler and entertaining family, I have not had time to blog or even check my email!

There is nothing like spending time with your loved ones and eating yummy food/sweet treats. I think one of my favorite snacks was the chocolate/cream cheese ball my sister-in-law, Kelly, brought. I snacked so much that I am terrified to be weighed in at my next doctor's appointment tomorrow. Eeek!

I especially enjoyed Christmas this year by watching it unfold through Ethan's eyes. The lighted houses in the neighborhood amaze him and he has to stop and make a comment at each home. He thinks baby Jesus lives right around the corner from us! He also now enjoys and appreciates opening gifts. One of his favorites is the Winnie-the-Pooh cycle Kellee Hopper gave him (I guess because it's not only cute, but that thing makes a TON of noise - smiles). Thanks, Kellee!

I hope you all had a wonderful holiday with your families, and wish you joy and blessings in the upcoming new year!

Thankful

2007-12-16T20:48:00.000-08:00

It's Sunday night, at 8:48 p.m., and I am sure our church service is still going strong right now. I am home because my husband is still recovering from his surgery. I am pleased to report that the surgery went well, but it will be days before we know if it was successful. Sam's pain is slowly fading and he is able to walk on his own. I'm so relieved to see him get his strength back. Thank you Jesus!

I wanted to take the time to thank a few of our wonderful church family for their help in our time of need:

Ari and Jaimee Prado: Ari took my husband to his surgery and waited for eight hours until he was released to go home! We did not think the surgery would take so long, but it not only went over-time, but the recovery was a little long too. Ari's precious wife, Jaime stayed with Ethan at home while I ran around crazy to pick up Sam's RX, etc. etc. When they saw that Sam was in pretty bad shape, they insisted on staying the night at our house to help me through the night. I don't know what I would have done without their help, and I appreciate it from the bottom of my heart.

Moses and Victoria Moreno: They brought over a delicious tri-tip dinner with all of the fixings! Little did they know this is Sam's favorite thing in the world to eat - he loved it! In the hustle and bustle of life, Victoria and Moses graciously took the time to bless us and I am so thankful.

Rev. Jesse and Sis. Linda Gutierrez: Bro. Jesse delivered Sis. Linda's DELICIOUS soup complete with tortillas, rice, hot sauce and dessert! All I can say is we almost finished it all in one sitting. It surely was soup for my soul, and I believe Sis. Linda is one of the greatest cooks ever!

Jason and Leah West: I probably got 2 hours sleep total on Friday night and Leah graciously came and took Ethan off my hands for the entire day so I could tend to Sam without distraction. What a relief and a blessing! Leah is a trooper and she deserves a BIG FAT vacation and maybe a few pairs of shoes (wink wink)! She and Jason were extremely busy preparing for the bus outreach team's holiday party, but they still took our son anyway because they knew how much I needed help. How thoughtful AND unselfish is that?!

Kellee Hopper: Since Leah and Jason did have a holiday party in the evening, Kellee took Ethan off their hands. She took him out to see Christmas lights complete with a trip to the ice cream parlor. I know he loved her for that! When she brought him home, he was actually not that excited to see us and wanted to leave with her. It was so sweet. (Kelle, would you like to take him for a week?(kidding)

Nina and Uncle Phil: My aunt and uncle visited us briefly on Saturday and bought Sam a cane. It sure came in handy and Sam has it by his side at all times. This truly was a blessing in disguise.

Sis. Filo Tikoluto and sweet Aseri: They came to our house on Wednesday and made it sparkle! I can't even begin to tell you how greatful I am for the hard work they put into my house. It was such a blessing to walk in to a fresh clean home.

Sonia Hernandez: Sonia brought over her famous "Red Chicken." We absolutely LOVE this dish! I can't even begin to say how thankful I am for Sonia. She has been a great help to us in more ways than one. I just have to mention that she watches our son for us during the week when I am at work. She and her family sincerely care for our son, and it gives me such peace. In return Ethan loves the Hernandez family and that speaks volumes!

Last but not least, thank you to all who have called/emailed/text to check on Sam. We appreciate your thoughts and prayers, but I am especially thankful for my church family and friends. You all have been such a blessing and I don't know what I would have done without the help and meals. May God bless you all with the desires of your heart for being so gracious to us!

Love,
Moni

Prayer Requests

2007-12-10T16:11:00.000-08:00

This Friday, 12/14/07, Sam is going to back surgery for a herniated disk. I do believe that God is going to watch over him, but I'm still a little worried about it. Surgery of any kind is very risky, but back surgery scares the fire out of me! Luckily this is an outpatient procedure and he can recover at home. Since I am 32 weeks along in my pregnancy, my sweet sis-in-law and brother will be taking Ethan away for a few days (sniff sniff) to enable me to care for Sam without distraction. I don't know what breaks my heart more than my husband having surgery or being away for a few days from our baby boy. Sometime this week, please remember to say a little prayer for Sam and a little prayer for my sanity!

Additionally, my grandmother, Lola Johnson, aka, "Grams" is recovering from a broken leg. She had surgery a week and a half ago and is recuperating at home. She is a teacher at East Valley Christian School, but will not be able to return for some time because she is not able to put any pressure on her leg for two to three months! Please also say a little prayer for her for a speedy recovery. She is such an independent lady, and I know she is so sad to be missing church.

I know God is in control. Thank you for your prayers.

Hassas Photography

2007-12-06T13:52:00.000-08:00

I am pleased to announce that my talented husband, Sam Hassas, has officially launched his photography website: hassasphotography.com

He has been adding to his site almost daily, and we are relieved that it is finally complete! Our son, Ethan, was his first subject in photography and from there, Sam's interest peeked and today, here we are! Sam has recently done some wedding work, covered an anniversary, senior portraits, family portraits and a day-in-the-life book. I must say that I am so proud of him and I think his work is amazing. I was able to mange to post two pics above of his above.

Please feel free to take a peek at the site and let us know your thoughts.

Happy 7th Anniversary!

2007-11-29T19:16:00.001-08:00

On 11/25/07, my husband and I celebrated our 7th Anniversary! Hopefully, I will be able to post an updated picture of us soon. Let's just say we've "grown up" a little from the picture above. (smiles)

This year we did not do anything special to celebrate, but still I am thankful for our children, our home, our health, etc. etc. I could go on God is so good to us!

Even though our finances are temporarily tight, my thoughtful husband came home the other night from work and gave me a special surprise! He felt so bad that we didn't get to do anything for our anniversary so he brought home a brand new set of Calphlon pots and pans for me. Maybe this might not sound so romantic to you, but I was overjoyed since we still use the set we received for our wedding, and the handles are literally falling apart!

To my hubby: Just wanted to let you know how much I love you. You work so hard to provide for us, and I appreciate you more than you know. I am very proud of you, and know that God is still in control of our future! Happy Anniversary - We'll have so many more to celebrate!

Happy Thanksgiving!

2007-11-21T13:46:00.001-08:00

I know it's a day early, but I wanted to get a chance to wish everyone a wonderful Thanksgiving!

Sam, Ethan, Gram and I are off to visit my mom in Fresno. This was really such a last minute plan that I need to get packing!

I do have so much to be thankful for this year. We have a new healthy baby boy who is expected to arrive in a few weeks, and we are so excited. I am also thankful for God's peace during the midst of the storm. It has been a year of trial, but God always somehow comes through. I can't thank Him enough for his faithfulness and love. Where would I be today without the Lord?

Finally, I wish you love during Thanksgiving. May you all have a wonderful time with your family and friends!

Never Too Young for Soda?

2007-11-19T15:03:00.001-08:00

My husband and I were sitting on the couch Saturday afternoon and while we were browsing the internet from his laptop for news, we came across this add for kids and cola. I could not believe my eyes - It said it's never too early to let kids drink cola! I'm sure it was just a joke, but should this even be promoted?!

If any of you know anything about my 2-1/2 year old son, you would know that his diet only consists of bananas, waffles, gold fish, pizza, chicken dinos, chips and grilled-cheese! It's frustrating, and we've been praying that his appetite would change. I learned a little lesson on Sunday afternoon when I mistakenly gave him a taste of chocolate milk. He would not take a nap, and was bouncing off the walls. Caffeine in any shape or form is bad bad bad for my "spirited" son.

The last thing I want to give him is a cola, even though I am ashamed to say that he has had a sip or two of ours. I know we should be setting an example, but I have to admit that I am addicted to soda and it's a tough habit to break!

A Visit With Tosha and Family

2007-11-17T16:41:00.001-08:00

There is no better way than to end the busy week with good food and the fellowship of good friends. Last night the Hernandez family opened their home to us and one of my favorite friends, Tosha Khoury, along with her husband, Matt and their children, Aubrey and Asher.

Tosha and have known each other for many years. Our friendship began, I believe at the age of 12 or 13 when we both attended the school at First Church. Sis. Sharon Thomas was our teacher! From that time on we have so many memories of hanging out together, and going to services and conventions - I could go on. Since then she decided to fall in love, get married and move far far away to Minnesota. I miss her dearly, but when she comes home to visit it's such a treat to get to spend some time with her. Since she and her family are here for Thanksgiving, were able to plan a night to hang out and have some fun.

As always, Sonia cooked up a great meal of pasta with chicken, salad, bread AND my favorite bean dip. (I could live on this stuff - really.) I brought along some seven-layer cookies and cheesecake with rasberry sauce, and the cheesecake was never touched! We ended the evening playing Catch Phrase - gals against guys. Our hubbies turned out to be the biggest cheaters I have ever played with! Needless to say, we had a great time and hope it won't be too long before the Khoury family comes back for another visit.

Happy Birthday Malia!

2007-11-12T15:50:00.001-08:00

On Friday, 11/2/07, a few of us gals went to a great little restaurant in Palo Alto named Nola to celebrate Miss Malia's birthday. The decor of this place was just too cute. It reminded me much of the Jazz Cafe at Downtown Disney. It kind of felt like we were actually sitting in the French Quarter, which I have never been to.

We started out with jalepeno corn bread (recommended). Everyone ordered delicious Cajun dishes, while my large 'ole pregnant self was too afraid of ordering anything too spicy ended up with a big fat cheeseburger Cajun style - yep, it too was spicy! How sad is that? As for dessert, well, careful what you order, but I recommend the beignets. These are fried French donuts served with powdered sugar - yummy!

Overall, we had a great time celebrating with Malia. She is a wonderful young lady, and I wish her all that her heart desires on her special day!

I wish had lots of pics to post, but unfortunately forgot my camera at home while trying to rush out the door. C'est La Vie!

A Mom's Worth

2007-11-12T15:40:00.000-08:00

In one of my many magazines, an article caught my eye. I just had to rip it out and post in on our refrigerator to remind me (and my husband) how much I am really worth. (wink wink)

According to Edelman Financial Services, if mothers were paid for all the work they do - from raising kids to cooking, cleaning, and general maintenance of family harmony, their annual salary would be $761,650! I say, it would be/should be much more.

Good thing motherhood is its own reward!

Cookie Recipe

2007-11-06T09:22:00.001-08:00

Earthquake!

2007-10-31T16:25:00.001-07:00

At 8:04 last night we were sitting in church and all of a sudden our building started to shake. Within a few seconds we realized we were having a quake! As the building shook, we watched a light fixture up above come undone and the speakers swayed back and forth. My poor friend, Leah, was sitting next to me and I about pinched her arm off while trying to communicate to her we were having an earthquake. I think she was in daze, because she didn't respond. She just sat there frozen. I then proceeded to run to the nursery to check on Ethan. The children were totally unaware of what was going on, but the nursery workers were just about ready to have the kids duck under the tables. Even though our nerves were shot, Leah and I laughed about it when it was all said and done.

To our surprise, when we returned home, Sam and I found that our large mirror fell off our fireplace and shattered into pieces on the floor. Picture frames fell and the pictures left hanging on the wall were all crooked.

I read the news this morning and found out that the trembler took place on the Calaveras Fault(literally just a few miles behind our home), lasted about 30 seconds, and measured 5.6. I also read that the Calaveras fault is capable of a 6.4! I guess this is a reminder to all of us in California to be prepared at all times because you just never know when one will strike. I have posted a few pics of the little damage in our home.

WELCOME!

2007-10-31T09:02:00.000-07:00

Welcome to my blog! After reading several blogs, I thought it would be fun to start my own to enable friends and family to keep up with the life and times of the Hassas family.

Our second son is due to arrive some time around February 5, 2008. Therefore, that is how we came up with the name for this blog: Three Men and A Little Lady. Well, I am not so little now, but in with time, prayer and fasting(lol) hopefully I might become little! So, I am outnumbered - three men in my house. This is going to be fun, and I'm sure I'll be blogging about it often!

I am slowly learning how to do the blog thing so please be patient with me. Be sure to check back soon for updates and pictures. Until then, be blessed!

2007-10-26T23:11:00.000-07:00